BF and I have been together 2 1/2 years, and he is turning 21 in a month. I am 22, and we didn't do much on my 21st birthday. We are pretty no-frills people, so we don't really celebrate birthdays or holidays. He doesn't have friends here, and not a very social person in general. He prefers to stay at home and play video games and since he's a programmer, he does a lot on the computer, too. I don't want to have his 21st birthday go by unnoticed. He is just happy he can buy booze on that day. For his 20th birthday I wrote him a nice letter and got food from the Olive Garden, which is his favorite restaurant. We also got a grill a few days after his birthday, because he likes to grill. I wouldn't say it was really for "him", but he says that we got it for us, and we had an excuse because it's his birthday. I don't know what to do on this birthday at all. Obviously, the drinking aspect is not the biggest deal, since it's not as if we don't aqlready have beer in the house and what not. I am so bad with gifts for him. He is a self-proclaimed geek, but has everything a "geek" would need. Maybe I should get something to go with the grill, or perhaps do something else completely? Any ideas?